Revenge

revenge
Someone ever hurt you..and you find yourself caught up in the idea of revenge. Don’t be. I know we  often want the person to hurt as bad as they hurt us. Especially if the person is unapologetic or will not admit to what has happened.
when someone hurts you, we are often moving from their own pain. One fact will always remain: HURT PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS HURT PEOPLE.  People will always act out what is in their hearts.
I’m not speaking of hurt such as a death but long terms effects time hurt not dealt with.You know when someone is a mess because they just are..and when someone is dealing from a current mishap.
And then there are those that WE ALLOW to hurt us time and time again.  When someone is no good for you, they just aren’t…no matter how much you love them. So you can continue to overlook the signs, but you will have no one to blame but yourself for your broken heart.
It is really up to us to protect ourselves. If you surround yourself with people who are ugly and nasty towards others, I just hope your are backing away while guarding your heart. I don’t believe for one second that people reserve behaviors. So what they do to others, they will do to you.
But don’t get caught up trying to figure out ways to hurt that person, mend your pain.
But imagine if it was you that deserved to be on the other side of someones wrath. Let’s be real, none of us are perfect and the fact of life is that we have wronged someone, intentional or not. But this is how we separate ourselves: We often judge others by their actions, and we judge ourselves by our intentions.
Unless you honestly believe that person meant to hurt you, try to understand the circumstances.
We all have been hurt and that’s just that. So stop waiting for a person to receive their just do…when you are in need of your own. You have your own life to live, please do so. Don’t mask that pain but deal with it so you won’t hurt others in the name of it.
What I’ve learned is that if someone really hurt you,  God will always deliver them to you. But trust and believe, God will not do so, until you have grace and mercy towards them. -you know the kind you want God to have towards you-

Watch who you grant access to you. Forgive others. We are all doing the best we can

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